We can tell from you that if you will put these questions to yourself, "How can I be happy when?" and then make your statement of what you think's gone awry. And then do your best to be a little more happy even though that has happened, what's going to happen is you are going to shore up your vibration until those things just fall by the wayside.
Do you know if you could answer the question and fulfill the answer, "How can I be happy when my house hasn't sold?" If you could ask that question for about 30 days, to the point that within that 30 days you are not unhappy because the house hasn't sold, it will sell!
If you ask the question, "How can I be happy when I haven't found my life partner?" if you could ask that question for about 30 days until you're happy even though you haven't found what you consider to be your life partner, that partner would walk through the door and you would recognize them. It has to be that way!
When you find the way of soothing your own angst, which is the only thing that is keeping you from being a vibrational match.
Here's the picture:
You are getting a watered down version of what you are wanting.
So you ask that question and bring yourself into closer and closer alignment with what you want, now, you are offering one signal. It has to come into your experience now, it has to, it can't NOT! It's not possible for you to not get what you want. It is not possible, unless you are holding yourself in a position of split energy.
Abraham-Hicks, Phoenix 3/1/06
